Marriage isn’t about pride —it’s about dying to self. Discover how God has used marriage to refine my heart, teach me the beauty of sacrificial love, and reveal that lasting intimacy is built not on pride and winning arguments, but on choosing each other every single day.

I wish this was one of those encouraging blog posts where I have a list of suggestions for new moms and wives struggling to balance it all - but the reality is, I don’t. I don’t have a list. I don’t have a recommendation. And this time, I am actually soliciting advice from other moms/wives to figure out - “How the HECK do you do it!!”

How do you balance hubby and babies?!

Because, let’s be real, balancing marriage and motherhood - it’s HARD!

When my husband and I started dating, we instantly clicked. The connection we shared was unmatched (and still is). Everything I was missing from previous relationships, he filled completely! Why is that you ask? Because he spoke my love language 😏

Learning my husband’s love language was surprisingly easier for me to master in the beginning of our relationship but, over time, after the “honeymoon phase” ends (which I believe it never should but let’s be realistic) and once you add kids to the mix - our priorities, our desires, and our love language just may change.

Ok, so I’m going to get really real with you guys this week.

Having a baby changes you. We know that. Mentally, emotionally, physically andddd sexually.

Sex is sometimes last on our list ladies. And quite frankly, what I didn’t know after having a baby - sex is just DIFFERENT all together!